保育士の人間関係が悪いと辞めたくなる!新体制って怖いね!

保育士の友達の話しです。

 

やはり、辞めたくなる理由って人間関係の悪さも大きいのだと思います。

 

新体制で変わりますよね。

 

 

保育士の友人の話し

友人は、新卒として公立保育園に採用されました。

 

担当したのは1歳児を13人です。

保育園を辞めたいと思ったのは、新体制からの職員間の人間関係の悪さと新体制になってからの新人への教育が全くされなかった時に辞めたいと思いました。

 

まず、職員間の人間関係です。

 

保育士の人数は女性保育士8人と男性保育士1人の合計9人でした。

 

人間関係が悪いと最悪ですよね。

 

最初は仲良く楽しそうしているように感じ、

 

「ここでならやっていけそう」

 

と感じました。

 

しかし、実際は園長先生が新しく就任され、新園長のやり方に不満を持っている方や、主任もB園から配属された方で友人が働くA園のやり方はわからないという状態でした。

 

園長は、自分のやりたいやり方でないとすぐにイライラする方でした。

 

口では「あなたのクラスだから、あなたのやりたいようにやっていいから」と言っていましたが、自分のやり方にそぐわないやり方をしている保育士Aには、きつくあたっていました。

 

職員室で他の保育士は自分の仕事をしている時に保育士Aが職員室で園長に相談していたことがありました。

 

その時園長は頭ごなしに「あなたのやり方はだからいけないのよ」と批判ばかりしていました。

 

しまいには「私あなたの保育嫌いだから」と保育士Aに面と向かって言っていました。

 

最悪!!

 

他の保育士も聞いている状態でそれを言ってしまう園長に、園長の力量のなさや配慮不足、ただのストレス発散にしているとしか思えず、責任者としての姿を見られませんでした。

 

その時にこのままこの園にいては園長からのプレッシャーで自分自身も潰れてしまし、保育のスキルを磨くことは難しいだろうと思った時に辞めたいと思いました。

 

そんな話をしていました。

 

園長の問題も大きいですよね。

 

保育園の新体制について

次に新体制になってからの新人への教育が全くされなかったことについてです。

 

これは私自身の話です。

 

新卒として4月1日に就任し、クラスの案内などはしていただきました。

 

しかし、「はい、あなたは1歳児クラスです。13人いるからね。よろしく」という感じで丸投げされました。

 

まず、このA園には実習に行ったこともなく、どういった保育をするのか、時間割はどうなっているのかなど、全くわからない状態です。

 

それなのに何の説明もなく

 

「よろしく」と言われ、

 

何から手をつけていいかわかりませんでした。

 

また、自分の机となったところには山積みの書類がありました。

 

これに関することを聞くと「まだいいよ」という答えが返ってきました。

 

私自身入ってすぐなので、「そういうものかな」と思ってしまいました。

 

後日気づいたことですが、中にはすぐに取り掛からないといけない書類もありました。

 

すぐに入園式の準備や玩具の点検、環境整備をすることになりました。

 

言われるがまま名札や持ち物箱の制作をし、清掃をしていきました。

 

とにかく、入園式の準備が整えばいろいろ教えてもらえると思いました。

 

しかし、入園式が終わると今度は保育をすることで手一杯になりました。

 

指導者のいない新体制に危機感を感じる

私のクラスには指導者となる保育士が配属されていませんでした。

 

新体制はめちゃくちゃでした。

 

 

本来であれば、新人保育士には指導者となる保育士がつき、新人保育士は指導者となる保育士の保育を見て次の年から単独でクラスを持つことが主流です。

 

しかし、この園にはそれがなく、新人保育士1人で13人を見る状態でした。

 

 

何かわからないことがあっても子ども達だけをクラスに置いていくわけにはいかず、すぐに聞きに行けない状態でした。

 

その中で保育をするので、朝の会すら何をしたらいいかわからない、給食もいつ取りに行くのかわこらない、わからないことだらけの中で聞きに行くことすらできない、完全に孤立した状態でした。

 

この時に、こんな1人の責任が重すぎる危険な仕事をさせる園で働きたくないと思いました。

これが私が保育士を辞めたいと思った時です。

 

なかなか酷い園に配属されたので、他の人に聞いてもありえないとよく言われます。

121 件のコメント

  • Thanks on your marvelous posting! I truly enjoyed reading it, you happen to be a great
    author.I will remember to bookmark your blog
    and definitely will come back at some point. I want to encourage one to continue your great job,
    have a nice afternoon!

  • Fantastic goods from you, man. I have be mindful your stuff previous
    to and you’re just too magnificent. I really like what you have acquired here,
    really like what you’re saying and the best way through which you say it.
    You are making it enjoyable and you continue to take care of to
    keep it smart. I cant wait to read much more from you.
    This is really a tremendous web site.

  • I just wanted to write a small remark to thank you for those superb ideas you
    are giving out at this site. My time-consuming internet search has at
    the end been rewarded with pleasant concept to share with my family and friends.
    I ‘d admit that most of us site visitors are quite endowed
    to be in a good website with many special professionals with useful techniques.
    I feel really happy to have discovered your webpages and look forward to so many more fun moments reading here.
    Thank you once more for all the details.

    my blog – http://www.www.ruriruri.net/

  • Hello superb website! Does running a blog like this require
    a lot of work? I’ve very little expertise in programming however I was hoping
    to start my own blog soon. Anyhow, should you have any recommendations or tips for new blog
    owners please share. I know this is off subject nevertheless I
    simply had to ask. Appreciate it!

    Feel free to visit my web blog – Slimingo Keto Reviews

  • Great goods from you, man. I have keep in mind your stuff previous to and you’re just extremely fantastic.
    I really like what you have bought right here, really like what you’re saying
    and the way wherein you assert it. You are making it entertaining and you still take care of to stay it sensible.
    I can’t wait to learn far more from you. This is really a tremendous web site.

    Review my site forum.adm-tolka.ru

  • Does your website have a contact page? I’m having a tough time locating it but,
    I’d like to send you an e-mail. I’ve got some creative ideas for
    your blog you might be interested in hearing. Either way, great site and I look forward to seeing it grow
    over time.

  • Hello there! I know this is kinda off topic but I was wondering if you knew where I could find a captcha plugin for my comment form?
    I’m using the same blog platform as yours and I’m having trouble finding one?
    Thanks a lot!

  • Hello There. I found your weblog the usage of msn. That is
    a really smartly written article. I will make sure to bookmark
    it and come back to learn extra of your helpful information. Thanks for the post.

    I will definitely comeback.

    Here is my webpage – Viro Max

  • Wonderful web site. Lots of useful info here. I’m sending it to several friends ans also sharing in delicious. And obviously, thanks for your sweat!

  • Hey There. I found your blog using msn. This is a very well written article.
    I will make sure to bookmark it and come back to read more of your useful information. Thanks for the post.
    I will definitely comeback.

  • You really make it appear so easy with your presentation but I
    in finding this topic to be really something which I believe I would never understand.
    It seems too complicated and extremely wide for me.
    I’m having a look forward to your subsequent put up, I’ll attempt to get the hang of it!

  • Hey just wanted to give you a quick heads up.
    The words in your article seem to be running off the screen in Chrome.
    I’m not sure if this is a format issue or something to
    do with web browser compatibility but I figured I’d post to let you
    know. The design look great though! Hope you get
    the issue fixed soon. Many thanks

  • Howdy! I know this is kinda off topic but I was
    wondering which blog platform are you using for this website?
    I’m getting tired of WordPress because I’ve had issues with hackers and I’m looking at alternatives for another platform.
    I would be great if you could point me in the direction of a good platform.

    Here is my site … Captive Skin Review

  • What i don’t understood is in reality how you’re not really a lot more smartly-appreciated
    than you may be right now. You are so intelligent.
    You know thus considerably in terms of this matter, made me in my opinion believe it from a lot of varied angles.
    Its like men and women are not fascinated unless it is one thing to accomplish with Lady gaga!
    Your personal stuffs nice. All the time take care of it up!

  • Hmm it seems like your site ate my first comment (it was
    super long) so I guess I’ll just sum it up what I submitted and say,
    I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog. I as well am an aspiring blog writer but I’m still new to the whole
    thing. Do you have any helpful hints for inexperienced blog writers?
    I’d really appreciate it.

  • Do you mind if I quote a couple of your posts as long
    as I provide credit and sources back to your blog? My website is in the very same area of interest as yours and my visitors would
    certainly benefit from a lot of the information you present here.
    Please let me know if this ok with you. Thank you!

  • A motivating discussion is worth comment. I believe that
    you need to write more on this issue, it might not be
    a taboo matter but generally people don’t speak about such issues.
    To the next! Many thanks!!

    Here is my page: Molten Keto Review

  • I’m impressed, I have to admit. Rarely do I come across a blog that’s
    equally educative and amusing, and let me tell you, you have hit
    the nail on the head. The problem is something that not enough men and women are speaking intelligently
    about. I am very happy that I found this in my search
    for something relating to this. quest bars http://j.mp/3C2tkMR quest bars

  • Do you have a spam problem on this website; I also am a
    blogger, and I was curious about your situation; we have created some nice methods and we are looking to trade techniques with others, why
    not shoot me an email if interested. cheap flights
    http://1704milesapart.tumblr.com/ cheap flights

  • You really make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this matter to be really something
    which I think I would never understand. It seems too complicated and very broad
    for me. I am looking forward for your next post, I will try to get the hang of
    it! scoliosis surgery https://0401mm.tumblr.com/ scoliosis surgery

  • I love your blog.. very nice colors & theme. Did you create this website yourself or
    did you hire someone to do it for you? Plz answer back as I’m looking to create my own blog and would like to find
    out where u got this from. thanks a lot ps4 https://j.mp/3z5HwTp ps4

  • I enjoy what you guys tend to be up too. Such clever work and exposure!
    Keep up the good works guys I’ve added you guys to my own blogroll.

    Here is my blog post: burn fat

  • I loved as much as you will receive carried out right
    here. The sketch is attractive, your authored material stylish.
    nonetheless, you command get got an edginess over that you wish be delivering the following.

    unwell unquestionably come more formerly again since exactly the same nearly a
    lot often inside case you shield this increase.

    Review my site: oil pulling saves teeth

  • I wish to point out my love for your generosity
    for men and women that actually need help with this particular subject matter.
    Your special dedication to passing the solution around appears to be wonderfully interesting and has truly enabled workers just like me to realize their aims.
    Your new warm and helpful recommendations can mean a lot
    to me and a whole lot more to my colleagues. Many thanks; from all of us.

    my homepage :: ketosis diet

  • I was suggested this blog by my cousin. I am not sure whether this post is written by him
    as nobody else know such detailed about my difficulty.
    You’re wonderful! Thanks!

    Look at my webpage: cycling diet

  • Hi there, I discovered your web site via Google even as searching for how to make a man orgasm related subject, your web site got here up, it appears great.
    I have bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.[X-N-E-W-L-I-N-S-P-I-N-X]Hi there, simply changed into
    aware of your weblog via Google, and located that it’s really informative.
    I’m gonna be careful for brussels. I will appreciate when you proceed this in future.
    Lots of people shall be benefited out of your writing. Cheers!

  • That is a really good tip especially to those new to the blogosphere.
    Brief but very accurate info… Appreciate your sharing
    this one. A must read post!

    My blog post hemp oil

  • Hello there! Do you use Twitter? I’d like to follow you if that would be ok. I’m definitely enjoying your blog and look forward to new updates.

  • I am extremely inspired together with your writing abilities and also with the structure for your blog.
    Is that this a paid subject matter or did you modify it your self?
    Anyway keep up the excellent quality writing, it is uncommon to see a great weblog
    like this one today.

    Also visit my web site … best weight loss tips

  • Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally,
    it seems as though you relied on the video to make your point.
    You obviously know what youre talking about, why throw away your intelligence on just posting videos to your
    site when you could be giving us something informative to read?

  • コメントを残す

    メールアドレスが公開されることはありません。