保育士の職場の人間関係最悪で辞めたくなる

学校を卒業して、保育士になってから1ヶ月ほどは、

 

「この職場、めっちゃくちゃ楽しい!」ぐらいに思って働いていました。

 

けれども、1ヶ月半が過ぎたぐらいには、

 

ときどき「保育士の仕事を辞めたいなー」

 

と思うようになっていました。

 

保育士の職場の最悪な人間関係

保育士の職場の人間関係で悩まされる保育士って多いのです。

 

最悪だと本当に最悪です!!

 

働きにくいし・・・・・・

 

誤解のないように補足しておきますけれど、

「入った職場が悪かった」とも言えるでしょう。

 

学校を卒業して新卒入社で入った保育園が、

もしかしたら悪かったのかも知れません。

 

人間関係が最悪でしたから。

 

いや、新人保育士だった私のいたらなさもあったのでしょう。

 

今ではそれなりに保育歴もあって保育にも慣れていますので、

スキルも上がれば精神も鍛えられてす太くなってはいますからね。

 

 

ですから、今の私ならば私が新卒で入った保育の仕事場でも、

それなりにこなしていたかも知れません。

 

けれども、新人保育士であった当時の私は、

最初の保育士の職場では「保育士の仕事を辞めたい」

とはわりとしょっちゅう思っていました。

 

保育園に入って2か月過ぎた頃・・・・

入って2ヶ月が過ぎた頃には・・・・・

 

保育士を辞めたいと思った理由の第一は子供ではありませんね。

 

躾がされていない園児によるダメージは第一の辞めたい理由ではないのです。

 

 

それよりもなによりも、

私は「職場の人間関係の悪さ」が、

保育士を辞めたいと思うようになった第一の理由ですね。

 

 

とにかくまあ、人当たりのきつい保育士が多い職場だったんですよ。

 

だって私の本音を叫ぶのならば

「新人保育士にはとくに優しくしてよー」と思いますもん。

 

 

「不慣れな新人保育士に、最初からベテランの働きを求めないでよー」は、

甘えだとも言えるでしょう。

 

 

けれど「ゆとり」と言われようがどう言われようが、

やっぱり「新しく入ってきた人に、フルパワーの力で当たりを強くしないでよ」とは思いますもん。

 

保育士の業務以外の仕事

保育士の業務以外の仕事にも厳しかった!!

 

例えば、保育園の保育以外の業務(掃除や洗濯、冷暖房の管理)などの係りの仕事にしましても、

やり忘れていたことを優しく指摘してくれるわけではありませんからね。

 

 

例をあげますと、

洗濯係の際に「洗濯機のフタを開けておくこと」を忘れていたとします。

すると、他の保育士が私を洗濯室へと連れていき、こう言ったのです。

 

「何かやり忘れたことがあります。何でしょう?」と、

腕を組みながら。

 

答えが出るまでその姿勢キープです。

 

 

「洗濯後に、洗濯機のフタを開けるの忘れてたよ」で、

終わる話だと思いませんか。

 

私、この時が洗濯係をするのは初めてのことだったんです。

そして洗濯係にしましても、

「やらなくてはならないこと」の項目が多いのです。

 

言い訳ですが、だからこそ1つやるのを忘れてしまったりしたんですよ。

 

 

けれど、ミスを指摘するにしても、高圧的かつ面倒臭い指摘の仕方をわざわざしなくてもいいじゃないですか。

 

 

ちなみにこの保育士さんって、

他の人へに対しても万事この調子だったりしますからね。

 

だから、彼女と組む保育士さんのうち、

新人保育士さんは高頻度で辞めていくのもわかります。

 

当たりがとにかくキツイですから。

 

 

などと書いていきますと、

このキツイ性格のベテラン保育士さんの悪口に終始してしまいそうですから割愛します。

 

しかしまあ彼女だけではなくて、

他の保育士さんも当たりがきつい人が多かったのですけれどね。それが私は正直辛くて…。

 

 

とくに「その場にいない保育士の批判」も地味にきついことでしたね。

 

ターゲットとなる保育士が席を外した途端に、

その保育士の批判ですから。

 

私は女子校育ちですが、

さすがに「さっきまでそこにいた人の悪口」で声高らかに盛り上がった経験ががいので、

このことについては実は衝撃的でした。

 

 

他にも「保育士の仕事を辞めたい」と思ったことは多々ありますが、

やっぱり大きな要因のひとつは

「女性だらけの保育士の職場の人間関係が最悪」というものでしょうか。

 

どこの職場に関してもそうですが、

保育士にしても人間関係の悪さが

「仕事辞めたい」と思う大きな要因になると思っています。

 

 

けれど、今の職場の人間関係は良いので、

保育士だから職場の人間関係が悪いとは決して言いませんけれど。

いざと言う時のために保育士の専門求人サイトに登録をしておくといいです。

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まとめ

すべての保育園の人間関係が悪いと言うわけではありません。

 

最初に働いたばかりの保育園が最悪でした。

 

人の陰口が好きな人もいますけど、

言い過ぎるのは最悪ですよね。

 

人間関係が悪い職場は本当に働きにくいです。

 

保育園の風通しをよくしておきたいものです。

 

 

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